We have all seen the videos online, home movies of women who have been driven to the edge of insanity within a couple of minutes by their partner. We have asked ourselves if these videos are real, and if they are how they can be possible. A couple of minutes of minor stimulation and she is ready to be pulled down from the chandelier. The weirdest part is that the man still has his underpants on!
The fact is that these videos are real and getting these results for your female partner is remarkably easy. You can have your wife or girlfriend climbing the walls, screaming your name and offering to paint your house in minutes and you never even have to take of your tighty whities. The secret is to understand some basic aspects of female sexuality and use them to your advantage.
First you need to understand that women are much more tactile stimulated that you are. They also are not as genitally centered. This means that while you are primarily interested in what is packed in your jockstrap as the end-all/be-all of the entire sexual world, to your female partner the world is much wider. The whole of her body is in effect a sex organ and when manipulated the right way can bring her to song singing orgasm levels in less than ten minutes.
Start out by working on her mind, tell her how beautiful she is, how hot she is making you, how incredibly hard you are and ready to dump just by being in her presence. Talk about her hair, lips, eyes and smell. Kiss her gently on the lips, cheeks, earlobes, eye lids, under the chin and on the nape and back of the neck. Gently lick her ear opening and then kiss gently down her shoulders. Rub her shoulder blades, upper arms (especially the back side) and the sides of her body with your finger tips. Help her to get undressed and, as you remove each article of clothing, gently rub, fondle, lick or kiss the parts of her body that are uncovered.
When you have her to her underwear, tell her how pretty it is and how incredible it makes her body look. As you remove the undergarments gently rub them over the skin of her stomach, thighs, breasts and upper arms. This is especially effective if the items are lace, silk or satin. Just barley let them float over her skin.
Now it's time to get to the main event for her, you are going to spend the next five minutes at least between her legs licking, sucking and gently rubbing her clitoris and the outer lips of her vagina. This will start the process of getting her to lose it. Once she has started to breath heavy and wiggle around its time to move a well-slickened finger into the vagina and apply gentle stroking pressure to the area directly behind where her navel is. This is the elusive g spot, once she starts to respond (you will know, trust me) take your other hand and start to apply a slight amount of pressure to the clitoris and rub it with a gentle assertiveness, the whole time you need to be saying sexy things to her and within a minute or two your efforts will be rewarded.
Granted, after following this advice you may need to replace a couple of torn pillow cases and get some beta-dine for those scratches on your back, but then again isn't it worth it for her to remember your abilities for years to come.
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